- Get your child’s attention – look at them and make sure they are looking at you.
- Be sincere and genuine.
- Use positive comments and encouragement with your child in front of others.
- Be specific – say what you see.
- State directions in a positive way
- Keep it simple – avoid combining positive feedback with criticism.
- Double the impact with physical warmth.
- Provide encouragement and positive description feedback when your child begins to engage in the desired behavior.
Examples include:
- “Awesome job putting on your shoes!” and give thumbs up.
- “Thank you for putting your books away!” and give a hug.
- “Wow! I like how you are using your inside voice” and give a high five.
Avoid this:
- Don’t Run!
- Stop Yelling!
- Don’t Hit!
Do this instead:
- Use your walking feet.
- Use your inside voice.
- Keep your hands and feet to yourself.