When children have challenging behavior or are not following directions, we need to provide them with guidance. We want to let them know what they are doing is not permissible or that we need them to follow instructions.
- Positively state what you want the child to do by giving clear expectations.
- Give one clear instruction at a time.
What’s a Better Way to Say?
Avoid…
Stop yelling!
Don’t throw toys!
Stop bothering your sister.
Be nice.
Watch out.
Try This…
Use an indoor voice.
Toys stay on the floor.
You can ask for a turn.
Use gentle touches.
Look both ways when we cross the street.